The Discovery Phase

I have to admit that I wonder why X is currently unattached. He’s a little bit older than me (early 30’s), has all his hair, is good looking, owns his own house, seems to come from a nice family, has a good job…I can’t help but wonder if there is a defective quality that I’m missing? The discovery phase of dating can be a dual-edged sword. You might learn that your new love interest spent their spring break building houses in Appalachia. Or that they spent it making their own version of Girls Gone Wild: Cancun.